Major Life Themes

It seems appropriate to bring a life story to a close by reflecting back over the whole of our lives. Taking a look at our lives as a whole will give us a better understanding of what the major themes and influences of our lives have been.

  • What gifts (tangible or in intangible) are still important to you?
  • What were the crucial decisions in your life?
  • What has been the most important turning point in your life?
  • Have there been any mistakes in your life?
  • How have you overcome or learned from your difficulties?
  • How do you handle disappointment?
  • Are you satisfied with the life choices you have made?
  • What has been the happiest time in your life?
  • What was the least enjoyable time?
  • What relationships in your life have been the most significant?
  • How would you describe those relationships?
  • Has there been a special person that has changed your life?
  • What have been your greatest accomplishments?
  • Are you certain of anything?
  • What are some things you hope you never forget?
  • Is there anything in your experience of life that gives it unity, meaning, or purpose?
  • How do you feel about yourself at the age you are now?
  • What is your biggest worry now?
  • In what ways are you changing now?
  • What has been the greatest challenge of your life so far?
  • What has been the most awe-inspiring experience you ever had?
  • What one sentiment or emotion makes you feel most deeply alive?
  • What matters the most to you now?
  • What do you wonder about now?
  • What time of your life would you like to repeat?
  • What was the most important thing you have had to learn by yourself?
  • How would you describe yourself to yourself at this point in your life?
  • Is the way you see yourself now significantly different than it was in the past?
  • How would you describe your world-view?